Husband of 24 years cheated on me with her since 98. In 9/7/14 I saw texts from her to him and vice versa. However there were texts from a50 year old named Donna that affair never started cause I found out to fast. She was a twin and think that I’m supposed to feel sorry that her twin and nephew and daughter died in a fire. Tragic yes but has nothing to do with the fact she knew he is married. She claims she never had intimacy with him until I kept pressuring her and she confessed. Yes he’s just at fault cause he married me. But he said I was crazy, delusional and jealous. He came home late and left early never really spent time with my oldest. The older lady didn’t deny anything and told me the truth but this one is a ****. He refused to give me her full name and what she looked like so I hacked into his email and found her thru fb. I called her while I was breaking his arm. Violence is never the answer but thanks to them I had a breakdown and he told her he was only living with me for the kids cause I was a bad mother. Mind you that while he wasn’t around I was taking care of the kids and worked as well. She cried like a baby when I spoke to her. Even get mother got in the conversation. To then have her stupid sister call me too. ***** fight your own battles you create. You knew he was married. Women when a man is married he’ll lie about leaving her and that there’s no intimacy just to get to you. He’s the first I blame but checking his call log this went on for more then 16 years. Me being stupid and younger then both trusted him. I’m still with him but can’t ever forget what he did. I paid a site to get all her information, address akas everything and one day recently I got in fb and her cover photo was my sis in laws block from Google maps. Now should I take it as she lives here nearby now or she’s stalking? Either way I hate her with a passion and be careful she’s untrustworthy cause she lies until you make her talk. Funny thing her birthday is a day before mine but her yob is 72. 4 years older then me and 2v years younger then him. The story went that he needed someone to talk to after his dad’s death in 2001. She’s no therapist and what am I here for then? I’m way prettier then her it’s just she was an easy lay for him cause I work and with kids I get tired. She’s a freaking ****. Idgaf and yes I blasted her and him on fb. Her child’s death he told me about when it occurred and he took it hard, and again it’s tragic but I didn’t know why he took it so hard. Her twin died there too. But why mess with a married man. If he says they separated but live together you know he’s lying. And now I can’t trust him for ****! My mom having surgery he made it late to see her while I was alone scared worried about her, and now I know why. Her surgery was a month before I saw the texts so he must’ve been with her or the other hag he was texting the same day Donna 50 yo ugly too. Smfh. He isn’t going anywhere mama.. And he’s my husband. Get your own man. Nilsa too with her sob story of cancer. Yeah sad but it has nothing to do with the emotional and mental and physical cheating. He changed his phone number but I’m sure he may have an email I don’t know about. I’ve had the urge to look again but scared to find that after I forgave not forgotten he’s doing it again. And these sites that make cheating easier don’t help marriages nowadays. So Natty ***** I hate you the most. I was with child twice while you were ******** each other. My oldest didn’t know his own father cause he was never home. So again I’m blasting your ***. Stay the **** away from my family. He’s learned his lesson (I hope). And I hope you learned yours. If not I’ll teach you whenever however wherever! Signed: scorned wife. You haven’t felt my wrath yet and it’s been 2 yrs since I found out!
