Well allow me to start at the beginning . Me and my husband started dating in 2008 when we worked for the same company . We became inseparable. We were always there for one another no matter what time it was . I was his Bonnie and he was my Clyde . A year into the relationship we got and opportunity to move to Missouri so he could run his own store . Even though times were hard we made it work for us . As long as we had each other we were good . Two years later we get another opportunity to move to Arkansas. I knew from the start once I seen this town it was a bad move . However he was my man so I supported him and wanted to see him succeed. All was well the first few years and we finally decided to make things official and get married in 2014. The money was so much better than it was in the last place . We finally could breathe a little . My husband started hanging out with quite a few people but he would always let me know where he was at and who he was with and would call me so I had no reason not to trust him . So I thought . In December of last year I find a text between him and some female telling her how much he loves her . Ok so when I confront him about it he says he was just lonely and needed someone to talk to . He wasn’t happy ( I felt that was a cop out cuz his *** was caught ) . Told me it was some random girl and all they did was talk . Said she didn’t mean anything. I didn’t believe him but WE agreed to put it behind us . He said he wanted us to get our spark back we had . We had been so consumed with work there wasn’t time for much else ( obviously he had time ) things were good for the next 2 months then out the blue he text me (yes a text ) from the bedroom and proceeds to tell me how he would be doing me a disservice by staying here and his heart wasn’t here anymore . Now mind u 2 days before he was telling me how great things had been and he was feeling we were getting back on track . So he moves out . He tries to get me to go back home to nc where were from originally but I refuse because I have a daughter that’s in high school . But assures me that it has nothing to do with anyone else . He just needs time to himself . He wants to know what it’s like to do things on his own .??I asked I kno 50 times . But he would always reassure me . And besides he was still coming over 2-3 times a week for *** so if he was leaving for that he wouldn’t be coming back here right ??WRONG!! And telling me how much he loves me . I mean up until 2 days before I find out . Not only did I find out he has been cheating on me . He basically has been living a double life for over the last year probably even longer with this girl who was one of our employees when he began this “situationship” with her . Even after I find out and go off he still has the nerve to say I love u ?? Ummm no u don’t . And the fav line I love you but I’m not in love with you . Knowing that he crushed me and broke my heart and humiliated me not to mention broke our vows he felt it was appropriate to move in with this girl. Like the last 8 years didn’t mean anything to him . So basically he was lying about wanting to do things on his own and wanting to be by himself. What really hurts is he lied and said all these things about me to insult me and try to ruin my self esteem and make me feel lower than low like I wasn’t good to him which I kno I was . All so he could protect his LIE ! what kind of love is that ?? Now as for her we were never close or even really talked but she knew we were married and what she was doing . But like they say karma is a b baby !! They will get there’s . As for now I have filed for divorce and waiting to hear if he has been served or not . I will get my justice in court but I never plan on speaking to him again .
