Here you see Donna Mies, 41 years old with no hopes of ever ending up with a decent man long term because it seems the only men she pursues are married or in relationships. She actively and persistently pursued my husband for years, very obviously to others although no one felt the need to alert me. Recently, during my pregnancy with my son I realized they were talking, and texting way more than he and I ever did. Phone records proved that, even after both individuals denied any contact, of course. While I was inside, helping my daughter with her after school homework, cooking dinner, doing laundry, cleaning the house, and trying to cope with a rough pregnancy etc., he was out talking on the phone to this piece of garbage, getting a buzz, while being told that his wife was the problem….that SHE was the cheater, and so on and so forth. Later, I found out they would meet at my husband’s step dads house, and were caught in the same bed, in his truck, in a field with her pants down, but “nothing was going on” After discovering all of this, multiple people told me that she had the “hots” for him for a long time. (Let me insert here that they work in the same building and still do). I am in total agreement that my husband was just as much in the wrong, but for her to knowingly take his attention away from his pregnant wife, and daughter, and make him believe that he was doing nothing wrong, and making himself feel better about his miserable, alcoholic self is simply disgusting. With this particular breed of *****, when you try to confront them for the truth, they block, deny, lie, and push blame like you wouldn’t believe. Many times, I have reached out for the truth and have not received it from her, even after my husband has come clean, apologized, and gotten sober for his family. Many months have gone by, and she still keeps tabs on me, and chooses to believe she has don’t nothing wrong. What causes these monsters to exist? What happens in their childhoods to make them emotionally destroy another human being? I did some research to find she married at the young age of 18, divorced, and remarried at 22 to an alcoholic, who she claims beat her. So, WHY, you may ask, would she pursue another alcoholic man? Well, let me just tell you…..an alcoholic is a very, very insecure person who is battling demons, and fears that none of us can fully realize. She preys on this vulnerable state and uses it to her advantage. It really boils down to this being an issue with her character. Everyone makes mistakes, but normally we learn from them, and we do not continue to devastate other people’s lives because we have made a miserable mess of ourselves. I hope when she is 85, in a nursing home, wrinkled and fragile, alone with no one to visit her, she will realize all the attention she received from the nasties at work was nothing but ****, and the way she portrays herself will NEVER draw the attention of a man ready to commit himself to a steadfast and loyal relationship.
